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Ask AI Right · part 2

[Ask AI Right] You Opened AI — Now What Do You Say?

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TL;DR

AI isn't Google — you don't need keywords, just talk naturally. Describing your situation works better than giving commands. Answer not right? Just say "too long," "explain differently," or "are you sure?" — AI adjusts instantly.

Plain-Language Version: What does "talking to AI" mean?

Talking to AI is like texting a very smart friend — you type your question in plain language, and it types back an answer. Unlike Google, you don't need keywords; just describe your situation and keep asking follow-up questions. According to an MIT study (2023), workers using AI for writing tasks saw a 37% productivity increase on average, with improved output quality as well. This article teaches you what to say when you first open an AI assistant, and how to adjust when the response isn't right.


You opened AI. Now what?

In the last article, you learned about ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini. Let's say you picked one and opened it.

Now you're staring at an empty text box. The cursor is blinking.

You don't know what to type.

"Do I need to use English?" "Should I be formal?" "Does it understand my language?" "Is there some special format I need to follow?"

None of that. Talk to AI the same way you'd text a friend.


First thing: AI is not Google

Many people use AI for the first time like they'd use Google — typing keywords:

❌ "leave letter template"

That works, but you're wasting AI's biggest advantage. AI isn't a search engine — it's an assistant you can talk to. You don't need keywords. Just describe your situation:

✅ "I need to take tomorrow off for a doctor's appointment. Write me a short leave request for my manager — polite but not too formal."

What's the difference?

Google-styleConversation-style
You give keywordsYou describe your situation
It gives you linksIt gives you a direct answer
You pick from resultsIt tailors the answer for you
Answer is fixedYou can keep adjusting through conversation

One principle to remember: describing your situation works better than giving commands.


Five things you can try right now

Don't know what to ask? These five tasks work for anyone, no expertise needed. Open your AI of choice, copy and paste.

1. Translate something

"Translate this to English: 'Tomorrow's 3 PM meeting has been moved to Friday. Please note the time change.'"

ChatGPT translation demo

It's not just translation — you can say "make it more formal," "make it casual," or "translate to Japanese." Much more flexible than Google Translate because you can specify tone and style.

2. Write a message for you

"I need to take tomorrow off for a doctor's appointment. Write me a short leave request for my manager — polite but not too formal."

ChatGPT leave letter demo

Notice how I described the context: not just "write a leave request," but the reason (doctor), the recipient (manager), and the tone (polite but not too formal). The more context you give, the closer the result to what you actually need.

3. Explain something you don't understand

"What is an ETF? Explain it in the simplest way possible for someone who knows nothing about investing."

ChatGPT explanation demo

This is one of AI's most useful features. Anything you can't understand — contract terms, medical reports, technical documents — just throw it at AI and ask it to "explain in plain language."

4. Organize messy notes

"Here are my meeting notes from today. Organize them into clear action items: Report due next week. Amy handles design. Budget not confirmed yet. Boss wants to add a feature. Deadline might move up. Need to ask Tom for last quarter's data."

You don't need to organize your notes before giving them to AI — the messier the better. It will categorize, sort, and find the key points for you.

5. When you don't know what to ask

"I'm a graphic designer. My daily work mostly involves Photoshop and Illustrator. What can you help me with?"

This is the most powerful move. You don't need to know what AI can do first — just tell it who you are and what you do, and let it tell you how it can help. It usually lists use cases you never thought of.


Answer not right? Three phrases to fix it

AI's first answer isn't always what you want. That's normal. The good news: you don't need to start over. Just say so.

"Too long"

AI sometimes gives very detailed, lengthy answers. If you just want the highlights:

"Too long. Summarize in three sentences."

Follow-up demo: "too long"

It immediately gives you the short version. This is the biggest difference between AI and search — you can adjust in real time.

"Explain differently"

"I still don't get it. Can you use an analogy?" "Give me an example instead." "Pretend I know absolutely nothing and explain again."

"Are you sure?"

AI sometimes confidently states incorrect things. If something feels off:

"Are you sure this is correct?" "Where did you get that number?"

It will recheck its answer. It won't catch every mistake, but it makes it more careful. Always verify important information yourself — don't blindly trust AI.


Three places beginners get stuck

"The answer isn't what I wanted"

Usually because you didn't give enough context. Compare:

  • ❌ "Write me an email" (What email? To whom? About what?)
  • ✅ "Write an email to my client telling them Friday's meeting needs to be rescheduled to next Monday. Keep it polite."

More specific = better results.

"AI stopped mid-answer"

Sometimes the answer is too long and AI stops halfway. Just say:

"Continue"

It will pick up where it left off.

"I don't know what else to ask"

Try this:

"What else?"

Or more advanced:

"Based on what we just discussed, what am I not thinking of?"

AI is great at building on what you already know to help you discover what you don't.


One sentence from this article

AI isn't Google — it's your conversation partner. Talk to it normally, tell it when something's off, and it will adjust.

You now know how to use AI. But you might be wondering: beyond translation and writing emails, what else can AI do for me?

Next article, we'll cover something more interesting: how to get AI to help you discover which parts of your daily work you don't actually need to do yourself.

This is Part 2 of the "Ask AI Right" series.

FAQ

How is AI different from Google?
Google takes keywords and returns links. AI takes a description of your situation and gives you a direct answer. You don't need to think of keywords — just talk naturally.
What if AI's answer is too long?
Just say 'too long, summarize in three sentences' or 'just the key points.' It will adjust immediately. That's the biggest difference from search — you can have a conversation.
Can I trust everything AI says?
No. AI sometimes sounds confident but is wrong (this is called hallucination). Always verify important information yourself. Think of AI as a smart assistant who occasionally makes mistakes.
What if I don't know what to ask?
Try saying 'I'm a [your job title], what can you help me with?' Let AI suggest ideas — it's more effective than trying to come up with questions yourself.